I know that when people are asking you questions they are only trying to learn more about you. I don't mind when people or someone ask me questions. I don't however like it when they think he/she can persuade me to detach my self from someone just because they might have an issue with them. I don't like it when someone questions my friendships with people because i am not naive and i will not let anyone walk all over me like i am a floor mat. I know that god has a plan for me and for us all and i highly doubt it that he will be disappointed with us if we have friends of the opposite sex. If that is the case, then he is or should be very angry with me.I have a lot of male friends some i trust more than others but they are still in my life. I don't let them decide who i will and will not date and i don't let them try to change me because that's not the kind of person i am. I love and care deeply for all the men who are in my life it does not matter if they are friends, family, or potential mates. I love them all because they all bring something different into my life. I wont let anyone tell me that i should pull away someone in my life just because they might find or think they have faults. I say this, because we all have faults and god does not pull away from us, so what gives us the right to pull away? If anything i want to help that person not leave them to fend for them selves. I would want that person to know that i am and will always be there for them. i will always love and care for them even when they think that they are alone. i would never push anyone to the side lines because i would not want that done to me. So, If any of my friends are reading this then listen to me good. I will always be there for you no matter what you do, say, or even how you behave. I wont cast you out because others might think i should and i wont let any ones feelings towards you make me question the kind of person you are.