A Good Man

Where are all the good men?
A good man is so hard to find and sometimes its like they are running of short of them. I don't think it is to much to ask for a man that is kind,caring,honest,open,no drama,no head games,and absolutely no bull shit. Why is it that when a man finds a good woman he treats her like a human door mat? why do men take kindness for weakness? Why is it that when we are getting to know them they show us the sweet and caring side of them but then as soon as they think they have us they flip the script? I am a sweet,kind,caring,compassionate, and understanding just like all the other women that i know,so why do we get caught up by the most random men on the damn planet? They either say one thing and mean something else or they lie to our face hoping not to be caught. Why do they try to talk us into doing something that they want to do instead of being honest and telling us what they want? Is it just so they can feel like you were pushing up on them and not the other way around? The last time i checked this was not high school and we are grown ass adults who should not have to play games.They have no problem sleeping with us but when they think that they have done something wrong they change up and act like nothing happened. They say they just want to be friends but as soon as they are alone with us they try to play with us like we are there little toy dolls. why cant they just make a decision and stick with it. Like i said before,and i will keep saying until it sticks no bull-shit. I also think that men get confused when they don't know what and that's because they don't really know them selves yet.
For myself,i have been with 4 men in my life and i have truly loved them all on some level. One treated me like a angle in the beginning and then flipped and treated me like a second class what ever. another treated me so kind and sweet and sometimes i still miss him, because he knew what hell he was doing with me. the third was kind,open,a little bossy, and shy about what he wanted from me. the last guy, i don't know what to say really, but what i do know is that he has his good and bad days and he is just confused in his life and about what he wants. If i could take a little from each and make one truly perfect man i would be a happy camper.
guys are always jumping from girl to girl and bed to bed hoping to find the one they want, but what they don't know is that when they do this to us and not giving a damn about our feeling, they are just making us bitter and cynical towards the opposite sex. Thats why it is so hard for some women to open up and trust, because of the damage anther man has caused without even knowing it.
To all the women keep your hearts,minds,and souls safe from men until they have proven them selves to be worthy of what you have to give.