Marriage

Marriage can be a hard thing to make work but if you put your whole heart into it, anything is possible. Marriage is about two people coming together to make a whole. It is about bringing the best and worst of two people together and making significant unit that can withstand anything that tries to pull them apart. No one person is better than the next and that is what marriage should never be about. It is about the completion of your self through another person, not because you have to but because you want to.

When look at your future husband/wife you should see the things that you would see in your self plus many other thing. Your spouse should not be your twin, because none of us are suppose to marry our selves, if we did that would make for a boring marriage.

Marriage is about love,commitment,honesty,loyalty, and sacrifice. It is about getting to know each other and growing with and old with one another.

(Love is patient, love is kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. Love does not demand its own way. Love is not irritable, and it keeps no record of when it has been wronged. It is never glad about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance (1 Corinthians 13:4-7).)

When i get married i would hope that he is kind,caring, honest,loyal, and knows who he is and where he comes from. I would hope that he would teach me how to be a better person and make my faith in god grow stronger. I am just like every other woman that i know. We want a man who wants us for who we are not what we have.God knows who we are and he knows what we want or need to be better people. it is up to us to live by his word and do what he ask of us.If we do this, then he will bless us to find the person that he wants us to be with.

(I got an email from a friend of mine and that's why i was inspired to write this. So, to a new friend that has graced me with her presence and insight, i say thank you.)