The number one question is this, can you be open and honest with the person that you claim you want to be with?
Honesty, is the best policy. Telling people what you want from them with out playing the head games, thinking they know what you are thinking is a cruel joke. Making them think that you want more from them, when you cant even find your ass is even worse. Leading, manipulating, lying, and secrets can make people question you and your state of mind. Talking and being honest can get you along way with me or anyone else that i know. Relationships regardless if they are dating/friendships are built on knowing that you have a person there that you can share almost anything with.
Relationships are hard enough in the world that we live in. Don't mess them up by bringing sex into the play unless you and the other person both know what is going on in the others head. Sex is a way of hiding when you don't want to talk about what's going on in your life. It is an escape that some men/women use when they don't know what they want but they know they want sex. When you are friends and i have friends that i just call friends, i don't use them for sex when ever i feel the need. I don't play with their feelings because i know that it can come back to bite me. If i want something more from a friend i have the guts and tell them, i don't just assume that they know what i want. The whole friends with benefits thing only works when you both know what's going on.
So, if you are one of these people that i am talking about, then tell the other what you want before it is too late and they end up hating you.
