why are men so complicated?

I think open communication is not too much to ask for, in fact i think it is the cornerstone to any relationship. Honesty and trust is another big thing in any relationship and i think it is a must. Keeping an open mind and heart can do wonders, if you are deserving. Making others feel like they have done something wrong, when it is you who are making the mistakes just makes you look like an ass. When i say relationship i am not just talking about dating, i am also talking about friendships. How do you expect for people to want to be around you when you treat them like they are worthless.
This goes for men and women, you should treat people the way that you would want to be treated. Let them know that you are a person that they can count on. Let them know that know matter what they tell you that you will be there for them and never turn away. Friends are hard to find, and for some of us they are hard to keep, so when you think you have found a good friend let them know.
Talking and sharing your feelings with another person can do wonders. It can make you feel better and it will make your friend feel like they made a difference in your life. Locking your self down just because you think you can is not acceptable in any situation. Binging rude and inconsiderate to the people in your life is just another way of saying that you don't and probably never gave a damn.
Take me for example-In the relationship that i was in, it started off so sweet and wonderful. It almost seemed to good to be true. I guess i was right, because when we were pushed and put into a situation of grief and pain. i found out that all men, including the one i was with, are just babies and they don't know how to handle them selves under pressure. Men seem to think that it is easier to blame others for what they do.
They think it is ok to say that they only did something, because you (the woman) wanted to. I think that is a cop-out and a selfish way to be. Like i said before men are like big kids looking for a mother. They say they want to be loved, but are they willing to love back? I think so but on there own terms. They say they are good men, but you just have to deal or put up with there shit until they decide on who they want to be with. Is that right? Hell no, because we are all adults and we should know what we want and if not we need to think before we jump.
Women have feelings and sometimes they do get the best of us, but nine times out of ten we have a right to be emotional. Do we want attention from the man that we are with or our male friends? Yes, but not so much when it feels like we are being smothered. Do we need honesty and respect? Yes, because with out that what else do we have. Women can we give our selves to men fully? No, because just when you think it is safe to let down the wall, they do something dumb. Women do we want to give a man everything that we have? Yes, because that's how we are. We want to love passionately,unconditionally, and we want the man that we are with to know that they have all of us.
To all the women out there keep a few things in mind, and remember that things do get better in time.
1.we are all special and we deserve the best not the lest from a man.
2.Don't expect something from a man when you know that he is incapable of it.
3.Don't feel bad when you fall for the ass of the world, just look at it as a learning experience. 4.Lastly don't give up, because mister right is out there, he just has not let you yet.
5.Have a little faith that one day you will be happy