Pass it on, and maybe take in advisement for your self.

You've paid your dues and you have nothing elese to prove. The the results of your efforts speak for them selves. Don't dirty your hands with idlel,trendy, or high maintenance indulgences like lovers who don't want or even know how to give back or when for that matter.
Take the time to nuture the finer things in your life, that faithfully satisfy multiple senses. Set aside a comfort zone that is meant for your stress relief. Like a home retreat or a mind altering area that can help clear your mind. A place where you can pray and get intouch with what matters most,
Lastly, maintain self confidence, self control, independence, and learn and respect the art of being alone. Because until you can, how can you ever appreciate the company of another.