do we really change or is it just the people around us who change?

I was talking to a old friend of mine and he told me that i am the same sweet person that he use to know in high school. i thought that was strange because i have been told over the years that i have changed. I have been told from some people that i know that i have become more self involved, twisted, angry, spiteful towards some people and just plain devilish and not in a good way. I can honestly say that i have been called these things but i don't really understand why. That's why when he told me that i was still the same it bothered me.I started to think that maybe i was not the one changing maybe it was the people who were around me. I know that we all change but i don't necessarily think it has to be for the worst. I have noticed the changes in my life and i think that they have only made me a better person. I have also noticed the changes in people that i know and i have seen the good and bad. I think that everything that we go through has some kind of purpose. I think that we just have to figure out what it is before it is to late. Is change good? i think it is. I think you should just make sure it is for the better, for your self and not someone else.

tell me a secrete!

Can you keep a secrete? I can. Can you trust a person with something that you don't want anyone to know about? I have things in my life that i don't want people to know about and i am sure a lot of us are like that. I have deep dark secrets that only a select few know about and i am happy, because some are good but others have had a effect on me that i don't wish to share with the whole world. I have had a chance to share these secrets with people that i trust and i would think that they would return the favor. I would think that if i told you something about me and my life that you would feel like you can trust me. I can be a good listener and i can keep things to myself if you tell me to but how can i if you don't give me a chance. So, tell me whats on your mind, because i will tell you whats on mine.