A Good Man

Where are all the good men?
A good man is so hard to find and sometimes its like they are running of short of them. I don't think it is to much to ask for a man that is kind,caring,honest,open,no drama,no head games,and absolutely no bull shit. Why is it that when a man finds a good woman he treats her like a human door mat? why do men take kindness for weakness? Why is it that when we are getting to know them they show us the sweet and caring side of them but then as soon as they think they have us they flip the script? I am a sweet,kind,caring,compassionate, and understanding just like all the other women that i know,so why do we get caught up by the most random men on the damn planet? They either say one thing and mean something else or they lie to our face hoping not to be caught. Why do they try to talk us into doing something that they want to do instead of being honest and telling us what they want? Is it just so they can feel like you were pushing up on them and not the other way around? The last time i checked this was not high school and we are grown ass adults who should not have to play games.They have no problem sleeping with us but when they think that they have done something wrong they change up and act like nothing happened. They say they just want to be friends but as soon as they are alone with us they try to play with us like we are there little toy dolls. why cant they just make a decision and stick with it. Like i said before,and i will keep saying until it sticks no bull-shit. I also think that men get confused when they don't know what and that's because they don't really know them selves yet.
For myself,i have been with 4 men in my life and i have truly loved them all on some level. One treated me like a angle in the beginning and then flipped and treated me like a second class what ever. another treated me so kind and sweet and sometimes i still miss him, because he knew what hell he was doing with me. the third was kind,open,a little bossy, and shy about what he wanted from me. the last guy, i don't know what to say really, but what i do know is that he has his good and bad days and he is just confused in his life and about what he wants. If i could take a little from each and make one truly perfect man i would be a happy camper.
guys are always jumping from girl to girl and bed to bed hoping to find the one they want, but what they don't know is that when they do this to us and not giving a damn about our feeling, they are just making us bitter and cynical towards the opposite sex. Thats why it is so hard for some women to open up and trust, because of the damage anther man has caused without even knowing it.
To all the women keep your hearts,minds,and souls safe from men until they have proven them selves to be worthy of what you have to give.

what would you do?

would you be there for me when i cried?

would you hold me and tell me everything will be alright?

would you pick me up when i fall?

would you give me an ear when i need to speak?

would you love me for me and never want me to change?

would you pray for me when you know that my spirit is low?

I would hope so, because those are all the thing i would do for you.

would you show me that there is another way when my way does not work?

would you show me that life has a purpose when i think all is lost?

would you show me your heart and trust me not to hurt it?

would you show me your faith in god knowing that i believe in god as well?

I hope so, because i would show all of these things to you because i believe in you.

would you let me see you cry?

would you let me see you when you don't want to let anyone else in?

would you let me into you most secret thoughts knowing that i will keep them with me always?

would you let me help you when you needed help knowing that i would never turn you down?

and lastly would you let me see the real you knowing that i will take you as you are and never force you to be any different.

friendship is built on trust, honesty, love, compassion, faith, hope, understanding.friendship is knowing that there will always be some one who has your back when no one else does. friendship is knowing that when you need someone to pray with you or for you, you know that they will without question.

to all my friends keep me in your prayers because you are always in mine.

-God gives us peace when need it and he gives us rest, but if you think about it what do we give god in return? God is there for us even when our friends are not able to be there, we just have to listen and be obedient-