As 2008 comes to a close almost.

" in side every man, there in lies the ability to be a better man." how many of you think this is true? The same could also be said about a woman. Here is something else to think about "next to every great woman stands beside her a strong and mature man." There are many saying that I could add but really what's the point? It takes two strong and mature adults to be able to come together and decide that they are going to be together. To all the men and women who have something worth fighting for you better do so, before it to late.
As the year ends some of us might have thought we would be at different places in our lives. Maybe a different job, a new home, or even should I dare say it a new and lasting relationship. Two of those things we have some control and it is not the last one. We can not for see or even guess what's on the other persons mind. We might think we know, but if we are honest with our selves we know we don't. I know I have, like many other women I know, thought that we found the one or even Mr right but I have been proven wrong once or twice. I think this is natures way of telling us that it is not time for love just yet. So I am going to focus on my own personal thing and let the rest follow.
As the new year creeps up let's try to face it with open eyes and a light heart. Let's LET THE PAST STAT IN THE PAST. and the PROBLEMS, the HEARTACHE, and all the PAIN of 2008 die with tone of 2009.

For friends and others

I accept you in confidence, I listen and admire your wisdom. We are one when we are together. That's why you and I will always be friends.
When you are angry, I am there to sooth your aggression. When you are sad I am here to cheer you up. We understand each others thoughts from time to time.
We have a trust that's very rare and that's how I know we will always be friends. We accept life as it comes all the good, bad, and the ugly. We are inseparable if only in mind. I read this and I thouht it was so true about some friends, so that's why I wanted to share it with others.
There are many things in life that we can not contol, we just have to hope for the best. People come in and go out of our lives every day that's why we have to be thankful for the time that they share. The people that are in our lives are angels and they should be treated with honesty, respect, kindness. God knows us inside and out, he knows what we want and what is best. He keeps us from the bad, but if we keep going against what he wants, we will be left standing all alone. So don't force people to stay and if they want to leave, let them leave. Our father up above have our best interest at heart, we just have to LISTEN......
-xoxoxo

Is he or isent he, that is the big question

Ok, I must confess, I never thought I would like this kind of guy. He is sweet, kind, and he knows what he wants. He is older, but he has a child like persona. He is a little rough around the edges and at the same time I can tell he can be a big goof. He tells me that I am the kind of woman that he has been looking for. He says that I am the piece that he has been missing from his life. We met a while back but never really talked, but he did ask me out. I forgot about the date we had planed until he called me, and you know what, I am happy he did not forget.
Some more info on him. He has two kids and he wants more. He has a good job and there is no ex-drama. He likes me for me, imperfections and all. He said that I am special and he does not want to hurt me. He wants to see where we end up.

Hello friends. I had a date lastnight and it was a good one. It started out kind of rocky, but all in all it was really nice. He got to my house an hour late with no real reason.that was the only mistake he made all night. That's one of my rules never be late for a date with me because it is rude and it won't get you any where with me or any woman.
Well, anyway back to my night. We went to dinner and then for latenight drinks. It was one of those first dates for the books. He followed all of my rules, with the exception of one. He behaved like a perfect gentlemen the whole night. We went to devon seafood gril and to spy bar, because he thought I would like it. It was a very interesting evening. He is a nice guy, so we will see where this goes, but I am not holding my breath.