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Monday, June 15, 2009

Never again

Ok last summer/spring/ and some part of the winter I was dating this guy. He worked a lot and he made time for me when he could but in the end I don't think it was worth the complications.
We went to dinner, movies, for long walks, friends houses, and we even went shopping. But it was not that often. I knew he worked a hell of a lot and he loved his job but I felt like I had a marriage. Once we got use to eachother all we did was stay in the house constantly. It was fun at first but after awhile it got boring.
It did not seem to bother him but I'm not the kind of person who can stay in the house all the time.
The thing is he would get mad when I went out with friends just because he could not go. I guess he wanted me to stay home if he could not be with me.
I know a lot of women who feel the same as I do. We don't want to keep the dating in the house all the time. Like I said, it ok sometimes but we don't want it to become a habbit.
I am happy that relationship did not work out for many many reasons. Some kno what went down and some don't and I'm keeping it that way. Let's just say I'm not going to limit myself for a guy.
This summer/fall/winter I'm not going to date someone who does not have time for me or who does not know how to make the time. When your with someone your are suppose to make time for them, and that goes both ways. You are with that person so even if you don't like something and they do, its sweet to do it anyway. It makes them feel special and who knows what you will get in return.
I loved hanging out with my guy last year but I changed who I was to make him happy. We should never have to change who we are to make someone happy.
So now that I'm hanging/dating or doing what ever we're doing I'm not going to change me.
Never change for anyone. Never lose your self for someone. Never become who they want or what they are looking for. Never ever give in.
xoxo