I find it funny how life is just one big double standred. Men can get away with doing so much and hurt so many but when women do, its the end of the world. Men can date 1,2,3 or even 4 women at a time, but when we women do it we get looked down on or called names. Men can have women over at ungodly hours and its cool but again if women do it, it can only mean one thing. I think that if a woman is going to sleep with a guy or do what ever, that's just what she is going do. Women don't play games when it comes to that. I know I don't and the women that I know don't play those games either. The man is the one that plays the games and try to make it seem like it was our choice. They are the ones creeping around trying to figure out how to get us into bed without looking like the ones who wanted to do it.
Another thing, If a guy wants to take his girl on a mini vacation he can but if the girl just wants to go away for the weekend with her friend oh no, that can't be. I think that's a bunch of crap. That double standerd crap has got to go. Men just don't get it, just because they might not be able to keep their hands to them selves that does not mean that women are the same way. Men think that just because they are doing something that they probably should not be doing then women are aswell. But you know what if they are then so be it! Who cares! We are all grown ups or we should be. We all know what we can and can not handle.
Myself, I love spending time with my friend Kyle because he gets me. We can chill together and be at ease with eachother. I trust him completly. We can sleep in the bed together, we can get drunk together, and we even cuddle sometimes. That's what I love about him. I can be me and don't have to worry. We went away together and we had fun. We had good old clean fun. Yes. We did have to much to drink but we still had fun. We are friends and that's it. Hell I started to cry for some random reason and he held me while I slept. Know that's a sweet guy.
So I say these crazy as double standreds have to go. And they have to go now!
Wednesday, July 1, 2009
Hmmmmm it has got to go
Posted by Damaged Love at 11:19 PM