Marriage

Marriage can be a hard thing to make work but if you put your whole heart into it, anything is possible. Marriage is about two people coming together to make a whole. It is about bringing the best and worst of two people together and making significant unit that can withstand anything that tries to pull them apart. No one person is better than the next and that is what marriage should never be about. It is about the completion of your self through another person, not because you have to but because you want to.

When look at your future husband/wife you should see the things that you would see in your self plus many other thing. Your spouse should not be your twin, because none of us are suppose to marry our selves, if we did that would make for a boring marriage.

Marriage is about love,commitment,honesty,loyalty, and sacrifice. It is about getting to know each other and growing with and old with one another.

(Love is patient, love is kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. Love does not demand its own way. Love is not irritable, and it keeps no record of when it has been wronged. It is never glad about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance (1 Corinthians 13:4-7).)

When i get married i would hope that he is kind,caring, honest,loyal, and knows who he is and where he comes from. I would hope that he would teach me how to be a better person and make my faith in god grow stronger. I am just like every other woman that i know. We want a man who wants us for who we are not what we have.God knows who we are and he knows what we want or need to be better people. it is up to us to live by his word and do what he ask of us.If we do this, then he will bless us to find the person that he wants us to be with.

(I got an email from a friend of mine and that's why i was inspired to write this. So, to a new friend that has graced me with her presence and insight, i say thank you.)

whats your bliss?

you live and you learn by experiencing new and interesting things in life. Can you honestly say that you have lived the life that you always wanted? Can you honestly say that you put your best foot forward? I would hope so because if not, maybe you have not lived the kind of life that you wanted or think you deserve. I don't care what job you have, but if you are not happy with what you are doing then you are only doing it to pay the bills. Don't get me wrong, paying the bills are important, but i think if you can do what makes you happy then you should.
Living life is about taking chances, making big or small risks, and doing the unthinkable. Life is about making friends and making sure that they are the ones you want to be around you. If you are lucky enough to have 6 very good friends and if you know that they will have your back no matter what, then you are doing better than most people. If you can say that you are happy at least 3 days out the week, than more power to you. Life is not about being happy 24/7 it is about knowing that you are doing your best. Some people say that their bliss comes from how much money, how their homes look, or if they have the spouse of their dreams. I think that your bliss should come from what makes you happy.
My bliss comes from my faith in knowing that there is someone out there looking out for me and knowing that i am a good friend. My bliss also comes from when i sing and paint. I have not painted in along time and not a lot of people know that i like to paint and that is because i keep it to myself. My bliss comes from a place in me that i rarely let people into, because it is for me.
What is you Bliss? Is it painting, reading,writing,your job, your children, or many there things that i can name.What (other than money) makes you Happy?

Ope Your Eyes

Open your eyes to all the possibilities that life has to offer you.

Open your eyes to see what your heart really wants and close it to what you think will make you happy.

Open your eyes and realize that God has a plan for you and all you have to do is sit back, be patient, and wait for it.

Open your eyes and see that the people around you love you for who you are not what you have, might have in the future,or the things that you are going to have.

Open your eyes and see that if you treat people like they are Shit, i grantee that's how you are going to be treated.

Open your eyes and see that with out honesty all you have are lies.

Open your and see that when you say " I Love You" and don't mean it, you are not only hurting someone else, but you are also putting your life in danger.

Open your eyes, heart, mind, and soul, because you never know when a good thing is going to come your way.